Chillidzi went from almost having a serious breakdown to thriving and energetic in one month!

Are you running on empty or feeling stuck?

Maybe you have tried yelling.

Shrinking to make room for others at home at your job or in your relationships.

Putting your goals on the back burner.

Allowing yourself to be gas lit.

Not standing up for yourself.

Binge watching YouTube videos on narcissism and identifying the narcissist in your life but unable to break free.

Or in one way or another, maybe you aren’t showing up as the wholesome woman you dreamed you’d become. 

I used to be you... 

I used to yell in English, pidgin, and Yoruba, and it made no difference. I am an expressive person but started to say less and do less in order to make room for others. And it robbed off in my relationship with my children.

I was gradually becoming the woman my boys would happily leave behind as soon as they became old enough to drive.

And then, something shifted.

I embarked on a journey of transformation—a journey that has led me to where I am today, ready to share the tools, strategies, and mindset shifts that turned my life around.

My experience birthed She Thrives Coaching Program

A 12-week transformational coaching experience designed exclusively for intentional mums like you. 

This isn’t just another coaching program. It’s a lifeline for mums who’ve felt the frustration, the exhaustion, and the yearning for change. mums who are ready to break free from the chains of yelling, rediscover their dreams, and reclaim the woman they were meant to be.

Imagine this...

  • Feeling confident in your ability to navigate relationships without sacrificing your own well-being.

  • Waking up every day with a renewed sense of purpose and vitality
  • Putting an end to yelling and instead fostering open communication with your loved ones.
  • Stepping into a version of yourself that not only your kids will be proud of but a version that you are proud of.

And that’s just the beginning. Imagine a life where you no longer feel the need to yell to be heard, where you confidently set boundaries, where your goals take center stage, and you reclaim your identity.

What Sets This Program Apart?

  1. 1

    Holistic Approach: We delve into every aspect of your life—health, relationships, career, and spirituality—to ensure a comprehensive and lasting transformation.

  2. 2
    Weekly Group Coaching Sessions: Learn with others during our weekly impartation sessions.
  3. 3
    Weekly 1-2-1 Coaching Sessions: Get personalized guidance tailored to your unique journey, challenges and goals. This will help you implement what you learn in the weekly group impartation sessions.
  4. 4

    Support Group: Join a group of fellow mums who are on the same journey, providing encouragement, understanding, and a safe space for sharing.

  5. 5
    Weekly Action Steps: Transformative change happens through action. Each week, you’ll have practical steps to take, bringing you closer to the woman you aspire to be and bring your results to your 1-2-1 sessions for specialized feedback and support.

What You Can Expect

Week 1-2

Lay the foundations for transformation and dive into self-reflection.

Week 3-4

 Prioritize health & fitness

Week 5-6

Transform your relationship with money and achieve career/business alignment.

Week 7-8

Strengthen love and family bonds, master parenting with purpose.

Week 9-10

Learn how to create a supportive environment and cultivate positive relationships.

Week 11-12

 Embrace spirituality, plan for continuous personal growth because I don’t want you tied to my apron forever.

Your Investment


Budget-friendly and convenient. £400 Per Month for 3 Months



Affordable Split: £550 Now, £550 in 6 Weeks


  • Lifetime Access to all deliverables
  • Access to All Modules
  • List Element

The simplest, fastest way!


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100% Satisfaction Guarantee

You are fully protected by our 100% Satisfaction-Guarantee. If you implement everything I teach you and don't see any transformation in your life in 12 weeks, just let me know and I'll coach you for free until you do. 

Who Am I To Hold Your Hand On This Journey?

First, I made a leap from banking to project management without prior project management experience. That's after getting into banking with a science degree.

On top of that, I've been steering my own fashion business for over a decade. And let's not forget my role as a fashion business coach for years, where I helped others navigate the intricacies of the industry.

I've always been passionate about women so I jumped at the opportunity during the 2020 lock-down and hosted a virtual conference I tagged "The Wholesome Woman". Over 2,000 women, 5 speakers, and countless insights on various topics.

It was good and I shared easy steps to become a "wholesome" woman. 

After the successful conference, I felt accomplished.

You see, I've always had the yearning to help mums but I didn't have the tools to go about it the right way, even if I thought I 100% did.

At the time, I believed it was as simple as handing people a list of DOs and DON'Ts and calling it a day.

In hindsight, there was a degree of arrogance with which I emphasized how “easy” it is to become wholesome.

Now, let me share a bit about my personal transformation. From a mum who used to resort to yelling, I've evolved into the loving mum my boys genuinely enjoy hanging out with. But reaching this point wasn't a walk in the park. I went from posting seemingly fabulous pictures on Instagram while battling depression, suicidal thoughts to facing the reality that my fairy tale wasn't unfolding as expected.

The turning point? The heartbreaking question from my son: "Why do you hate us so much?" It hit hard.  

It was my wake-up call to get my life back on track. I had to pull myself out of a dark place, and that journey was far from easy.

I faced homelessness in the UK, multiple rejections from jobs I applied to, while my business in Nigeria took a hit at the same time. It seemed like everything was out to get me all at once.

In that dark tunnel, I found no light in sight. But like diamonds are refined under pressure, I emerged stronger. 

You see, I've worn the shoes of desperation, hopelessness, and self-doubt. I know the struggle intimately because I've lived it. It's not about following a simple blueprint or secret steps like I thought. It's about embracing the messy, challenging journey of true transformation.

Through this, I've emerged with stronger relationships with myself, my family, and my friends. I've easily shed the layers of toxicity — people, limiting mindsets, negativity, you name it.

I said all that to say this: when life hands you everything on a silver platter, teaching, understanding and guiding others can come off as a set of easy-to-follow steps. But when you've lived it, breathed it, and emerged refined, you truly understand what transformation means.

I've been through the trenches of gentle parenting struggles and the doubt that creeps in when everyone shares their stories of parental discipline and why gentle parenting only works for white people. It's a different ball game when you've worn those shoes and you've seen that what lies on the other side of the aisle is better.

So now you see why when mums like you reach out with messages of gratitude, it hits me right in the heart. I get why I went through it all, the broken moments, the feeling of being small and unseen. 

E V E R Y T H I N G !

Because I needed every bit of it to become who I am today.

So let's embark on this transformation journey together. Your story is unique, but you don't have to navigate it alone.

Sending you strength and warmth,


Questions Other People Have Asked (Maybe Yours Is Here Too!)

Will I get a recording of the sessions?

Absolutely YES. I want you to watch and re-watch and hear these things until they become a part of you. The sessions will be provided in an audio version for you (based on request) to help you listen even when doing your chores, taking a walk or pooing.

This program is set up to meet you where you are, and get you to where you want to be. You job is to implement like your life depends on it.

What if I miss a session?

 All group sessions are recorded and can be accessed later. One-on-one sessions can be rescheduled with prior notice.

How is this different from other programs I have paid for in the past and gotten no results.

First because Rose says ""

and then Azizat said ""

But enough of reviews from the other women I have helped.

It's difficult to convince someone who has been burnt online by coaches who promised the moon and the stars and ended up having their 2 year old draw the moon and the stars on a dirty napkin to commit to anything like this.

They gave the moon and the stars okay, but it was not quite the kind of moon and stars results you needed or were promised.

This is different because I am coaching from experience. I have relocated, transitioned from one career to another, run a successful business, coached business owners for years, had parenting fails, you name it. I'm not coaching based on only my experience but also the experiences of over 100 women I have coached.

I take a holistic approach, addressing every aspect of your life—health, relationships, parenting, career, and spirituality.

In addition, the combination of group and personalized coaching ensures comprehensive support tailored to your unique journey.

Finally, with this program, you aren't tied to my apron aka dependent on me to stay on track. It equips you to be self-sufficient and not need me to keep you accountable after 3 months (but I will be here anyway because I love supporting my people).

What is the cost of the program?

 The investment options are:

  • One-time payment of £1,000.
  • Two payments of £550 (second payment due after 6 weeks).
  • Three monthly payments of £400.

Can I split my payments?

Sure. You can pay monthly, one payment now and another after 6 weeks or pay the full amount.

  • I payment of £1,000
  • 2 payments of £550 (one now and the second payment after 6 weeks)
  • 3 payments of £400 monthly.

I NEED THIS but.... I am afraid I might not have time to actually partake in this program.

I get it. But you'd agree that any productive adult in today's world doesn't just get time magically appear on their schedules.

You have to CREATE time for everything. If it's not scheduled, it's not happening. Not having time for self improvement is a blaring siren that you need to join this program right now. 

We all get 24 hours a day. And I can teach you how to go to bed with a smile plastered on your face everyday because your to-do list is all done and you actually ticked things off that list that were ALL ABOUT YOU.... as it should be!

What is included in the 12-week program?

  • Weekly group coaching sessions.
  • Weekly one-on-one coaching sessions.
  • Support group access.
  • Weekly action steps and personalized feedback.
  • How much time do I need to commit each week?

     This is different for everyone but to give you an idea, you should expect to spend at least 3-4 hours each week. 1 hour on group sessions, 1 hour on one-on-one coaching, and 1-2 hours completing action steps.

    How do I join the program?

     Click on the "Reserve Your Spot Now" button to sign up and choose your preferred payment plan.

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    Send me a DM on Instagram @tgjonah or send an email to and I'll be happy to answer all your questions

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